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step5
Find out, with regard to the exact item found in Step 1 above ("area of dissatisfaction"), what the client has been trying to do. This will, of course, be a frustrated intention. Run the Emblem Therapy procedure in Chapter 24 on this intention, to the point that the client now has an new awareness on the images and behaviors that get in the way of this intention, and the computations behind them.


Step 6
Finding an Ideal Sexual Relationship

This list of ten questions explores the boundaries and the willingness necessary to define the client's own ideal relationship.

For each question from a. to e., ask the question and get all the answers the client might have, writing them down on a list. From d. to j.,

let the client choose the best answer from each list.

You may use the biomonitor to indicate which item on each list has the most charge, but the final choice is the client's!


a. What things do you want out of your ideal sexual relationship? [List the items.]


b. What would you want to be appreciated for in your ideal sexual relationship? [List the items.]

Alternately:
In your ideal sexual relationship, what would you be able and willing to give to the other person?
[List the items.]


c. What would you be unwilling to contribute or give up for that person or relationship? [List the items.]

d In question a., what is the most important or essential item?

e. In question a., what is the least important (or most negotiable) item?

f In question b., what is the most important or essential item?

g. In question b., what is the least important (or most negotiable) item?

h. In question c, what is the most important (or least negotiable) item?

i. In question c, what is the least important (or most negotiable) item?


j In a sexual relationship, what would you be unwilling to experience, put up with or explore?




The six steps of the above rundown are a rather thorough approach to the
resolution of sexual relationship issues.

However, it is very likely that your client will feel that the issue has been significantly handled before completing all six steps.

If he or she has a major realization in the area of sexual relationships in session, or a major win in that area in life during the course of the rundown, you would do well to consider the rundown complete for the time being.

This would be preferable to overrunning the client on the subject.

Nevertheless, if you are considering that the mission may have been accomplished, always confer with the client on this decision! Remember, the rundown can always be resumed

or even re-run --at a later date.